Maturity is not something that we could force out of our shells, but at the very least, by being very understanding in the smallest of things, by seeing everything in all perspectives, by not dealing things with anger right away, and by being fair to our judgment, we can somehow try and work our way to being mature once and for all. There’s no rush, though.

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Dear Girls,

There’s a huge difference between looking pretty and feeling beautiful on the inside. Not everyone who looks pretty, feels beautiful. Most of them have their own insecurities about their body, weight, height, hair and everything else for that matter. They try so hard to look pretty enough. But what they don’t know is that they already are. They just don’t see it cos they don’t feel that way. That’s why they try on those cosmetic products and try surgeries. What they don’t realize is they’re ruining their natural beauty and turning it into an artificial one. But lucky for those who feel beautiful on the inside, they don’t have to go through all those worries. They know they’re beautiful on their own without having to put on some makeup. They’re beautiful because they feel that way and it reflects on the outside, on how they look. You don’t need to have the perfect vital stats to call yourself beautiful. You don’t need to feel bad about yourself everytime you see cover girls on magazines. Because as cliché as it sounds, real beauty comes from within.

I hope you realize that. Feel pretty and you’ll look lovely.

Sincerely,

Me

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Hello ♥

Alam ko sa panahong ngayon nahihirapan ka sa nararamdaman mo ngayon dahil pumasok sa isipan mo yung samut-saring problema na nararanasan mo ngayon. Mahirap din sa part ko na pareho tayo ngkakaproblema, Kaya mo yan! Magdasal at manalig ka lang sa Panginoon, lahat ng bumabagabag dyan sa puso mo at isipan mo isang pagsubok lang yan! Madaming taong nakapaligid at kaya kang pasayahin. Pasensya kana kung isa ako sa mga nagbbgay ng problema sayo. Pero, hindi nman ako nagkukulang ng oras at pagmamahal para icomfort kita. Lately, nagiging mainitin ang ulo mo, naisip ko kasi bakit. Siguro kaya ka nag eenjoy ngayon sa dota at nalabas labas at natagal sa shop dahil sa siguro namimiss mo lang yung mga bagay na dating ginagawa mo nung hindi pa tayo at wala kang gf. Nakikita ko naman kung gaano ka kasaya kapag kasama mo na ang buong family mo, kain together, watch movies together, Im happy for you kasi ikaw na din mismo nagawa ng paraan para maging masaya ka. Hindi kita hahadlangan sa mga bagay na nagpapasaya sayo. Siguro dahil nasanay lang ako na lagi sakin ung atensyon mo tulad ng dati at laging kang sweet at super nagiging masaya ka kapag magksama tayo tulad ng dati kaya ngayon nalulungkot ako. Alam ko gusto mo lang maglibang dahil sa matindi ang kalagayan mo ngayon. Mahirap din sa part ko as your girlfriend, dahil palaisipan sakin yung mga bagay na iniisip mo, na hindi sinsabi sakin. Ang gusto ko lang naman magsabi ka minsan sakin, hindi kita iiwan sa ere. Maiintindihan kita :) Mahal kita eh! Lagi mo tandaan yan. Sana ngayon na may problema ka, sana wag ka mahiya magsabi sakin o magkwento. Masakit kasi yung bigla bigla ka na lang nagsusungit sakin :) Magagawan ng paraan ang lahat ng problema mo at ng iniisip mo. Wag mo lang sana kalimutan mag pray o magsimba magdasal ka ng mataimtim. Isang oras lang para sa Panginoon, tutulungan ka nya :)

Nagmamahal ng sobra,

 

I believe in old-fashioned relationships.

I believe that guys should take the initiative move and ask the girl out. I also believe in commitment and gender roles in the relationship; the men providing lead and protection while the women follow. Yeah I know generations have passed and things have changed since then and many would think that this idea is sexist. But in my interpretation, women and men have endless differences and no matter how much of a feminist you are, you must recognize that men and women are built differently. Ironically though, that’s the beauty of love; having two contrasting objects fit together in a warm and appeased harmony. I believe in moving slowly (there’s no need rush) and building a foundation with the one you want to be with. I don’t like how in today’s relationship, people are dating as soon as someone says they like you. What happened to the get-to-know-each-other process? Don’t be with someone just because it seems right at the moment but be with them because you truly believe that it would work out in the long run. I like long relationships and I do not believe in hook-ups. I don’t know how many people would agree with me but this is the way I think.

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